Sunday, March 15, 2009

Our House Now

This is the state of the half of our house that is currently being remodeled. Four rooms have been gutted. The plumbing and electric work will be done tomorrow. Insulation will start on Tuesday.

We are living in a makeshift living room/kitchen in the garage and a bedroom, study and bathroom over the garage.

No problem!

With a little luck we can provide the after picture in June.

Wednesday, March 11, 2009

Progress!



I feel good! The Right Brain Workshops that we have piloted over the last several months, for the purpose of helping participants, have certainly helped me.

Although we truncated the time and offered only half day sessions instead of the one or two day sessions we really think we need, I found that it really helps to dedicate time and space to exercise the right brain functions.

Although most of what I do with clients requires right brain function...relationship building, teaming, conflict management, intervention, visioning, communicating, etc., there is a tendency to go native. My clients are very intensely left brain centric with a strong dislike for anything that crosses over from the right brain hemisphere.

It's not a benign dislike. It's a very aggressive polarized and polarizing style. In order to work in these environments, I have to appear safe. I have to appear, to some degree, left brained.


Even more importantly, I need to have and display affection for left brained people and cultures. Fortunately, I have that affection. Large amounts of it. I know the world needs a lot of good left brain dominant people. I don't want to do that kind of work, and I appreciate the people who do.

The problem for me is that I hang out with these people day and night sometimes for days on end. I don't get enough exposure to some of the most talented right brain dominant people I know. There just isn't time for everything.

So, the 'aha' for me is that four hours of immersion on five Saturday mornings spaced over two months made a big difference to my work. I had a chance to practice graceful and exaggerated body movement. I had a chance to practice improvisation. I had a chance to work on vocalization. I had a chance to connect emotion to body movement...body movement to voice...voice and choreography to other people and groups.

I had a chance to tell a story in a slower and deeper way using all four voice octaves and all range of improvisational movement to support the story and it's characters. I had a chance to draw freely on paper with markers and support my story with images.

Each Monday morning I took all those tools to work and put them into action. Even if I just made a 10% improvement, the results were dramatic. I think the work was more consistent and powerful than it has ever been.

I'm going to take a few weeks off from this 'alpha test' and create another pilot series that will be our 'beta test'. Then, we shall see where it goes.

Friday, February 13, 2009

Another Lease on Life!

The CT Scans looked great! No sign of cancer. That's the two year mark! The bell curve predictions are now on my side.

There was even some talk of getting my next scan in twelve months instead of six months. In the end, we decided to play it safe and get another scan in six months.

The surgeon took a look at the scans as well because there is a pseudo-cyst attached to my pancreas that was result of some damage during surgery. It might have gone away on its own, but it hasn't. Now we need to decide if I want more surgery to get rid of it. The cyst may be causing some digestive problems that are keeping me from gaining weight. Its not a severe problem as it is, or risk if I go for surgery. The thought of being laid up with surgery right now is not appealing. So, I'm thinking about it. I will get a second opinion for sure. I'm not in any rush.

Friday, January 30, 2009

Launching a New Year

Wow! 2009 is off like a shot! It really seems like a whole new era. In spite of the economy, it feels like the country was just let out of Guantanamo.

I've been juggling 5 engagements with four companies since New Years Eve. Fortunately, two trips in the next two weeks have been postponed. I have a much needed breather.

On top of the work, we are ready to begin a remodeling project on half the house. So, we have to pack and move the downstairs rooms to a storage area. We will be living on a construction site for 5-6 months.

My health seems good, but I will get verification of that over the next two weeks because it's CT Scan and endoscopy time. These tests, I have to say, are really frightening. I've tried to capture the feeling in a rhyme...called "Test Time".
_____________________

Test Time

The thing you really want to hear
Is "no problem, we're done, you're all clear"
And until those golden words are uttered,
Your mind, with doomsday scenarios cluttered,
Dances with thoughts that time is short
And flirts with disasters of every sort.

Build walls around that dancing mind
And get on with the things that help you find
Comforts, thrills and distractions so deep
They keep you safe in restless sleep
So dawn will light the path to play
With moments that take your breath away.
__________________

Maybe it's not a coincidence that I was so busy for the last month.

Saturday, December 20, 2008

Sailing into the Holiday Season

Life is exciting...and exhausting. My mother had some surgery and , as she was recovering, fell and broke three ribs. She is hospitalized and will be weeks in rehabilitation. So, I'm cutting my holiday family visits in half and headed for Chicago on Christmas day while our son keeps tabs on mom.

Work is now slowing down for the holiday break, and its been great. I don't think I've ever enjoyed this combination of clients and activities more.

Our pilot workshop called "Bringing Your Right Brain to Work" went very well. We decided to keep going and offer four additional workshops in January and February. I think the workshops will be great and I think the nation is yearning for a solution to this devastating state of the union. The arrogance has gone out of the business community. The left brain dominance of the last 30 years has reached its natural end. The next 30 years is too complex and too fast paced for anything but strong left and right brain balance. Leaders who are too dominant on the left or right brain hemisphere need to partner to get balance. The workplace is loaded with left brain dominant managers. Right brain dominant people have mostly left business or are hiding out in a role that looks left brain dominant.

We need to develop a place where people can exercise the right brain hemisphere and integrate it with work...and life. We need to develop a place that is culturally accessable for left brain domnant people. We need a boot camp that interupts the patterns of business, develops the right brain capaibilites and builds a new combination of achievement and innovation...of analysis and relationship...of sequence and random.

The journey to build that place has begun.

Friday, November 21, 2008

Bringing Your Right Brain to Work!








December 3, 2008 6:30 pm – 9:00 pm
Universalist/Unitarian Church of the Monterey Penninsula
490 Aguajitio Road, Carmel, CA 93923

For over a century, the most workplaces have honored and rewarded a workforce that is deeply rooted in left brain talent and focus. As the world becomes more complex and fast paced, it is increasingly impossible to drive success exclusively from the left brain. The breakdown of America’s and the world’s economic system offers a rare moment to integrate the right brain into the left brain dominant workplace

This workshop explores a model for understanding complexity and the need to balance left and right brain capabilities in the workplace. It is designed to show how the emerging sciences of ethology, cybernetics and systems theory combine to help us better understand the world and the way our organizations can keep up with rapid evolution of everything around us.

Co-Facilitator-Bob Sadler is a management consultant with 30 years of experience in the management of organization development and change. . http://www.sadlerconsulting.net/

Co-Facilitator-Peter Roberson is the founder of Human Insight, LLC which is based in London and is the author of the book “Always Change a Winning Team”. . http://www.human-insight.com/

Cost: $20.00 Donation to UUCMP with Reservations --$30 at the door:
Call Bob Sadler 4156010754

Thursday, November 20, 2008

Happy Anniversary!

It's November 20. Yesterday, we celabrated our 42nd anniversary. We dated in our senior year of High School, stayed together while Sharon went to college and I fullfilled my military obligation including a year in Vietnam. We were married in 1966. Our marriage survived the 60's without the benefit of drugs, the 70's without considering divorce (which was all the rage), the 80's without abandoning a home full of teenagers (kids so high on hormones that drugs might have provided relief), the 90's without begging our kids to come home and keep us company, and well into the 2000's in spite of eight of the most destructive years in US history and the resulting feeling of personal futility.

We celabrated with a couple of days at Carmel Valley Ranch. It was delightful. It was a sunny 75 degrees and the fall color was as good as it gets in California. We wandered around village art galleries and ate some of the best food ever.

I look back on 42 years (46 really) with a rush of joy, sorrow, triumph, failure, and, most of all, fullfillment. How did I ever find her? How did she ever find me? How did we ever sustain love and support for each other as our individual identies emerged and grew? I don't know. The warmth of our anniversary will be at the Thanksgiving table next week. I'll give thanks, again, for the bounty.